Finding one’s style of management is not an easy task. Who do you trust, where do you get the guidance, which theory to believe? Some of us try to find our own way, some dive into books and manuscripts, some seek help of mentors. As we try to connect the dots we are distracted by The Myths of Management and if that is not enough the confusion is amplified by urban legends and conventional wisdom. What legends you might ask – let me mention just a couple –
The Legends of Complete Turnaround
I do not know how many times I heard that one. Joe Smith was one of the worst performing employees, always late to work, unproductive, rude… Linda Black took him under her wing and before we knew Joe became a high powered executive, a mover and a shaker. In meanwhile Linda moved on and now she’s turning around teams, entire organizations, planets… Well that might be a bit of simplification / exaggeration but I am sure you recognize the pattern.
I do not dismiss a possibility of a turn around. Things happen, like we see on the Biggest Loser TV shows where fat depressed slobs become extraverted health freaks with shining teeth. What an inspiration! No wonder some managers see their mission to make sure that every loser on their team turns into a winner. I call that a God Syndrome… Who are you Mr. Manager? Do you think you can change people? What a joke! People do not change unless they want to do it themselves. And not just want it… They must have a burning unstoppable desire to change and even then it’s exceptionally difficult, painful, and liable to relapse and reversal.
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